We’ve been potty training for what seems like forever. Part of the deal is that I generally lack enthusiam for it. I don’t really have issues with the diapers and potty training creates a lot more anxiety for me. I really shouldn’t complain, we have a terrific day care and they do most of the lifting on this one. I’m sure that we are making this harder because of the inconsistency at home. At school, he’s always in underwear; but at home sometimes he’s in diapers & sometimes he is in underwear. So, he has a fair amount of accidents at home and I can’t really blame him. And we don’t get upset with him (unless he pee’s on daddy’s chair which is a Big Deal) and ask him to tell us when he needs to go.
I’m not really sure what the definition of trained is. Are you done potty training when you don’t have to ask him if he needs to go to the bathroom? When you have 100% confidence that he can manage this himself?